Synopsis
about the “Change You Brain Everyday” Blog
Don’t ignore your gut feelings because you are overcome with the high of new love. If you feel somewhat uneasy about a new relationship get some opinions from people you trust on the person. Chances are someone with no history with your new fling will see them in a more honest light. If you are changing yourself to try to make them like you more its not a good fit.
Exercise: Share this list with anyone you know who is looking to start a new relationship
I didn’t write the list down. If you want, it get the audiobook on Audible or the hard copy from Dr. Amen.
The list was full of so many obvious red flags that I just didn’t feel like I needed to write them down. Example: “The person lies, a lot…They have anger issues and an explosive temper…” It sounded like the exercise was “Describe the biggest assholes you know.”
Do you know what the sad thing is? A lot of people are so desperate to be “loved” that maybe those things are not obvious to them. If you want the list get the book or just be honest with yourself.
If you do keep falling for assholes then love yourself first. Have some much love for yourself that you have to give some away. I learned this principle by listening to Dr. Wayne Dyer on YouTube.
P.S. I do have a friend that has become a bit a relationship chameleon though. This person has been in a series of two week relationships. Every time I see this person they have a new relationship and a new hobby. The hobby is the interest of the new person they are dating. The advice here is really the same as above. Love yourself, be yourself, and let the rest take care of itself.
Author – Coach Brian